Strategy to win in all situations!

For over a week now Swamiji has been speaking about the Advaithic space and i have fallen in love with this topic! Such an amazing truth explained so simply. Every time he reveals a truth I am amazed! I have lived as his disciple for the past 9 years in the ashram but there are so many things i am still learning every day, so many things yet to be revealed by him.. i am just a baby in this path! They say, the master reveals a truth only to the disciple who is ready to listen.. or is it that the master always keeps repeating the same truth, but when the disciple is ready the truth finally reveals itself to him!?

One of the ultimate truths he has been repeating is ‘Everyone is an extention of you!’ .. the first thought that would come to my mind then was “Well if thats the case, how come i dont much care for the attitude of X and how is it that these two people dont get along’ ?

The truth finally ‘clicked’ for me during one of the satsangs a few days ago. He said – Everyone is an extension of you. Whether you call the person as a Hitler or Bin Laden, Buddha or Mahadeva, Krishna or Kali, everyone is extension of you! Look in and see! Everyone of us has a part within us which we hate and a part within us which we love. These people who we are talking about are magnified forms of the parts which you love/hate!

Look into you. Complete with the part of you which is responsible for your anger, your violence. You will see that guy, the “the world” (outer world) terrorist loses all his power; he will become powerless! You entertaining anger towards him which is in the “my world” (inner world), keeps his violence active and alive. The moment you complete with this, your enemy will no more be a lion; he will become a rat! Make the enemy powerless by making your enmity powerless!

They will become powerless, their violent actions will become powerless; they will become stupid when they try to attack you; and they will just lose all their power. I tell you, Completion with your violence, Completion with your anger, Completion with your enmity will make your enemy powerless. It is the law of life!

The space of Advaitha is where: Everything is extension of me, whatever I want is already part of me. And that is Kalpataru!

What a mind boggling satsang! I simply loved it! Many of us do not understand why we are being asked to drop the anger towards someone who has wronged us, even get angry with the people who even suggest such a thing! .. It takes a little bit of looking in, to realize that its for our own benefit, no one elses!

To read the transcript of  the entire talk or watch the video click here

Impossibility is a myth

Impossibility is a Myth

Life is like a story – which can be written and RE-written :)

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Dump Your Past in the garbage where it belongs !

The past forms an area of people’s lives which is the most thought about, yet the most ignored. Often people feel helpless to let go of their past and move on, and keep carrying it like baggage. Many personality traits and ideas about oneself and others, especially the dis-empowering ones, can be traced back to incidents in the past. When an incident from the past leaves its mark on us and begins to limit our thinking, it is called a pattern. Whether it is low self-esteem, self-doubt, fear, anger, ego or powerlessness, all are patterns.

When you recall an incident from your life, and are able to feel the same emotions you felt when it was happening, it means you are holding on to your past. People are not able to let go of past hurts because, even though they may have ‘moved on’, they seldom heal the wounds that were caused during the event. The process of healing the wounds of the past is known as completion. It is only when completion with past incidents happens that you can be free from feelings of powerlessness. Completing or reliving the past incidents does not mean feeling like a victim or blaming yourself for past events. Rather, completion frees you from the influence of your past, so you have the inner strength to face anything in life.

To be free of the patterns that leave you powerless, Lord Shiva has given the solution very clearly in the 22nd verse of the Vijnana Bhairava Tantra of the Shiva Sutras. Lord Shiva says:

“Look at your past, dis-identified; let attention be at a place where you are seeing some past happening; and even your form, having lost its present characteristics, is transformed.”

This technique helps you clear all the patterns of powerlessness that you might be carrying within that continue to cause you deep suffering.

Step 1

Sit in front of a mirror and create a strong intention to be complete with your past patterns of powerlessness.

Step 2

Look into the mirror; the form that reflects back at you and represents your incomplete part.

Step 3

Start reliving the incident, and let your whole attention be on the in-completion being relived inside the mirror, with a clear understanding of being dis-identified from it.

Step 4

Whenever you begin to think, why did this happen to me and why did I react in this manner, tell yourself – “This happened because it happened! I reacted in this manner because I reacted in this manner!” Do not try to find a reason for what happened, and don’t let the past be a reason to hold on to the current patterns.

Step 5

With this clarity, keep reliving the incomplete childhood incidents in the mirror. You will see that the childhood form you recall having at the time when the incident happened, will melt down and will lose its power over you.

In the Inner Awakening program, Paramahamsa Nithyananda leads the participants into discovering and completing with their root thought patterns to make a quantum shift in their lives in just 21 days.

Many of us can hear but can’t listen

My Guru Paramahamsa Nithyananda listening to a disciple’s question about life and its mysteries

My Guru Paramahamsa Nithyananda Swami has been speaking on a very important topic ‘completion’ for over a year now! The source of all problems in life, be it – bad health, relationships, money issues, fears, worries and feeling of not being loved or appreciated – everything! for every problem the solution is only one thing – COMPLETION!

So what is this completion? How to achieve it? Is it something only people who are spiritual/meditators etc enjoy or can practice? The answer is NO! Everyone can do it and anyone can do it – no need to be a regular meditator even though meditation ofcourse helps the process in a big way!

Completion is nothing but seeing a situation/incident/experience as it is and not feeling powerless about it. And the secret to doing this is “Listening”. Listening to yourself, the cries of your heart, the complaints, the frustrations and the fears! Just like every other living being your heart also just needs to be listened to. You will see that a lot of understanding happens through listening – understanding of yourself and others and you start seeing everything as it is. You realize that the reason for all incompletions is directly you and noone else! You are responsible! When you know you are responsible and the mess-up is because of your irresponsibility, you will know how to take responsibility and clear up the mess!

Life is really very simple. Its we who make it complicated with our perceptions and fears which make our perceptions look like facts 🙂

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Listening needs three things from us:
One, a passive inner space that invites the other person to pour themselves into your listening
Two, a deep patience that can wait for a solution to emerge on its own
Three, the courage to respond spontaneously, without a prepared answer or a ready made solution

Listening means just dropping the mind and being available for the other.People don’t always means what they say or say what they mean. Only when we “Listen” do we know what is lying behind the words that are being spoken.